I love teaching. I think I was born to teach. I have been in education for 45 years, and I can’t seem to think of a day when I won’t be teaching. Even if I no longer work at a school, I know I will find a way to teach, a way to connect with children. Connection is equivalent to teaching for me. Yes, I care about reading and writing and all the components of a well-read education, but foremost I care about the relationships I developed with children so that they can be open to possibility. Being open to possibility is the key to life-long learning, and life-long learning, I believe, is the key to happiness. It gives one purpose, and a sense of purpose is what keeps us humans strong and resilient.
In my work as a teacher, I have been a purveyor of books. I love reading aloud to children and sharing ideas that will create new creative space for them. I love handing older students novels that I know will guide and encourage them. I have done this for hundreds of children over the years, just like my 5th grade teacher, Lorraine Skovron, had done for me.
Lorraine gave me the greatest gift at ten-years-old. A slow and reluctant reader, Lorraine kept putting books in my hand until one stuck and took hold and didn’t let go. That book was Misty of Chincoteague. I read that book all day one Saturday locked in my bathroom, laying in my bathtub padded with pillows and comforters. I couldn’t stop reading it. And when I was done, I was a reader. I went back to Mrs. Skovron and told her that I finished the book. She smiled and handed me another horse story. I must have read every horse story written that year, 1966 – the year I became a reader.
When I began teaching, I kept Lorraine in my teacher heart. I knew her connection to me and her connection to books made a difference in my life. It turned my life around. And that is what I intended to do for my students when I started teaching in 1979. As a nursery schoolteacher, the stories I read were the curriculum. I read widely and offered all kinds of knowledge to the young children in front of me. I lived and breathed children’s books and their authors: Carle, Sendak, Brown, Van Allsburg, Lobel, and Pinkney. When I began teaching elementary school, I also read aloud to my class. We went on many book adventures turning our class into a sailing vessel, and rocket ship, or a castle, as the stories dictated.
When I encountered a reluctant reader, I was eager to help. I wanted to give that child the gift that Lorraine Skovron had given me. Most times it worked. If I just stayed with it long enough, I would find the key to turn that reluctant reader into an avid reader. I just had to listen and search for stories that would spark their imaginations.
Recently, one of my fifth-grade students put a book in my hand. She told me that I had to read it. “It is so good!” she declared excitedly, “I NEED you to read it!” Well, I was busy, and she could see I was reluctant, so she said, “It’s about a girl who was born without arms, and she moves to Arizona with her parents to run a western theme park.” She knew that would get anyone’s attention, including busy me. “What?” I said. “I know,” she said. “It sounds crazy, but it is so good.”
I have known Melody since she was in kindergarten. She is a sweet child who struggled to read and pay attention. She’s a fighter, a compassionate, kind, loving fighter. So, I knew that I was going to have to drop everything on my to-do list and read The Insignificant Events in the Life of a Cactus by Dusti Bowling.
The day Melody put the book in my hand, I wrote a poem to express my feelings. I knew she wanted me to read this book because there was something in the book that I needed to know. As I read the book, I kept stopping and exclaiming, “Wow,” or “Melody!” every few pages. Melody knew that since I was our school’s learning support coordinator, I needed to know how students with disabilities really feel. Melody knew that I would get this book, that I would understand, that I might in turn put it in the hands of a child who needed it.

I finished reading The Insignificant Events in the Life of a Cactus. It was indeed a wonderful, uplifting book about the power of possibility. When I told our school librarian about how Melody had recommended the book to me, she showed me other books by the author. As I flipped to the dust jacket to read about the author, I realized that Dusti Bowling had written a sequel – The Momentous Event in the Life of a Cactus. I immediately ordered two copies of the book, one for me and one for Melody. I can’t wait to put it in her hands.
Books about Disabilities
- Picture Books about Disabilties
- We Move Together by Kelly Fritsch and Anne McGuire
- What Happened to You by James Catchpole
- You’re So Amazing by James and Lucy Catchpole
- Mama Zooms by Jane Cowen-Fletcher
- It was Supposed to be Sunny by Samantha Cotterill
- This Beach is Loud! by Samantha Cotterill
- Come Over to My House by Eliza Hull and Sally Rippin
- Can Bears Ski? by Raymond Antrobus
- Lone Wolf by Sarah Kurpiel
- Logan’s Greenhouse by JayNay Brown-Wood
- I Talk Like a River by Jordan Scott
- Next Door by Deborah Kerbel (wordless)
- My Brain is Magic by Prasha Sooful
- Listen: How Evelyn Glennie a Deaf Girl, changed Percussion by Shannon Stocker
- The Mermaid with no Tail by Jessica Long
- Dancing Hands: A Story of Friendship in Filipino Sign Language by Joanna Que
- Sam’s Super Seats by Keah Brown
- I Will Dance by Nancy Bo Flood
- A Head Full of Birds by Alexandra Garibal
- A Day with No Words by Tiffany Hammond
- The Boy with Big, Big Feelings by Brittney Winn Lee
- Hello Goodbye Dog by Maria Gianferrari
- All the Way to the Top: How One Girl’s Fight for Americans
- With Disabilities Changed Everything by Annette Bay Pimentel
- Chapter Books about Disabilities
- I Funny by James Patterson
- The War That Saved My Life by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley
- Song for a Whale by Lynne Kelly
- Show Me a Sign by Ann Clare LeZotte
- Swimming with Dolphins by Jessie Paddock
- Lila and Hadley by Kody Keplinger
- Rules by Cynthia Lord
- Wonderstruck by Brian Selznick
- Each Tiny Spark by Pablo Cartaya
- Planet Earth is Blue by Nicole Pantelaeakos
- Counting by 7s by Holly Goldberg Sloan
- Sunnyside Plaza by Scott Simon
- Mockingbird by Kathryn Erskine
- Wonder by R.J. Palacio
- Rain Reign by Ann M. Martin
- Anything but Typical by Nora Raleigh Baskin
- Out of My Mind by Sharon M. Draper
- Fish in a Tree by Lynda Mullaly HuntGet a Grip, Vivy Cohen! by Sarah Kapit
Your passion for reading and for book matchmaking is contagious. Now I want to read the cactus book. I’ve heard that one was truly wonderful. It sounds like we enjoyed so many of the same authors growing up. Sendak and others – all of those golden oldies, now classics. I think it is such a blessing that you are still exchanging books with students.
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I will be ordering this book — what an odd and intriguing description. I love how your student got your attention, did not give up. Thank you.
My family talked me out of becoming a teacher. My Aunt — who was high up in various endeavors in education — saved me as she said pick a subject, study that, and teach that. It is what I did…
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